An international and historical look at how parenting choices change in the face of economic inequality
Parents everywhere want their children to be happy and do well. Yet, how parents seek to achieve this ambition varies enormously. For instance, American and Chinese parents are increasingly authoritative and authoritarian whereas Scandinavian parents tend to be more permissive. Why? Love, Money, and Parenting investigates how economic forces and growing inequality shape how parents raise their children. From medieval times to the present, and from the United States, the United Kingdom, Germany, Italy, Spain, and Sweden, to China and Japan, Matthias Doepke and Fabrizio Zilibotti look at how economic incentives and constraints—such as money, knowledge, and time—influence parenting practices and what is considered good parenting in different nations.
Through personal anecdotes and original research, Doepke and Zilibotti show that in countries with increasing economic inequality, such as the United States, parents push harder to ensure their children have a path to security and success. Economics has transformed the hands-off parenting of the 60s and 70s into a frantic, overscheduled activity. Growing inequality has also resulted in an increasing “parenting gap” between richer and poorer families, raising the disturbing prospect of diminished social mobility and less equal opportunities for children from different backgrounds. In nations with less economic inequality such as Sweden, the stakes are less high, and social mobility is not under threat. Doepke and Zilibotti discuss how investments in early childhood development and the design of education systems factor into the parenting equation, and how economics can help shape policies that will contribute to the ideal of equal opportunity for all.
Love, Money, and Parenting presents an engrossing look at the economics of the family in the modern world.
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“Love, Money, and Parenting presents a fascinating, insightful analysis of the origins and consequences of different parenting styles over time and place. Doepke and Zilibotti explain how and why parents shape child preferences and skills to adapt their offspring to the anticipated social and economic realities facing them as adults. The authors creatively use basic economic theory to integrate and interpret a vast body of evidence from multiple disciplines. This ambitious, well-argued book carefully examines how families influence the social and economic fortunes of their children.” James J. Heckman, Nobel Laureate in Economics
“Economics is usually the last thing on people’s minds when they think about parenting. This wonderfully readable and original book aims to change that. It shows how different parenting styles are all about trade-offs, how they shape the way children explore and experiment with the world and take risks, and how economic factors have played an important role in the striking changes we have experienced in the way parents think about their children and parent them. A must-read.” Daron Acemoglu, coauthor of Why Nations Fail
“In their stimulating account of the reasons behind different parenting practices, Doepke and Zilibotti unashamedly argue for an economic interpretation, while also including social and cultural factors. Worryingly, the authors show how emerging societal divisions could enable some parents to promote their children even as they disable the efforts of parents in more difficult economic circumstances. Parenting regimes by class threaten equal opportunities, social mobility, and political participation. The authors’ hope is that thoughtful policy interventions can head off such threats.” Jane Humphries, author of Childhood and Child Labour in the British Industrial Revolution
“Presenting many key findings and novel explanations, Love, Money, and Parenting argues that we can use economic principles to explain why different parenting styles exist across different countries and within countries at any given point in time. At once intelligent, sophisticated, and accessible, there is no other book that tackles the same themes as this one. I really enjoyed reading it.” Nattavudh Powdthavee, author of The Happiness Equation
“Bringing together personal experiences, reasoning, and evidence, this fascinating and persuasive book shows that parenting decisions are governed by incentives and an economic approach can help us to understand why parents’ choices might vary across countries and over time. The wealth of information, detail, and strength of economic argument is impressive.” Jo Blanden, coauthor of The Persistence of Poverty across Generations
Podcast: LOVE, MONEY AND PARENTING (Fabrizio Zilibotti interviewed by Tim Phillips, voxeu.org 3/15/2019) – MORE THAN 115,000 DOWNLOADS AS OF 03/21/2019!
The real reason behind the rise of helicopter parenting (Jenny Anderson, Quartz, 2/14/2019)
Oekonomiske forskjeller gir strenge foreldre (Economic inequality makes parents stricter) (Sigur Bjoernestad, Aftenposten, 3/25/2019). Very nice pictures!
Der Druck auf die Eltern hat zugenommen, sagt der Professor für Entwicklungsökonomie (Patrick Imhasly, NZZ am Sonntag, 2/17/2019)
How to know whether you’re a ‘helicopter parent’ and why it matters (Elissa Strauss, CNN, 3/22/2019)
Waarom zijn ouders helikopters geworden? It’s the economy, stupid (Dries de Smet, De Standaard, 3/9/2019)
How Economics, Child Care Policy, and Job Markets Affect Parenting Styles (Patrick Coleman, Fatherly, 3/4/2019)
Our kids’ stress may be rooted in income inequality (April Kelly-Woessner, Lancaster Online, 3/3/2019)
How Parental Pressure Can Rise With Income Inequality (Robert Lavine, Psychology Today, 2/25/2019)
How Economics Explains the Way We Raise Our Kids, with Matthias Doepke (Martin Bamford, Informed Choice Radio, 2/25/2019)
Collapsed Korean educational ladder should be rebuilt with full public education (Jung Jae-hong, Yahoo News Japan, 2/25/2019)
Let’s Give America’s ‘Helicopter Parents’ a Break! (Sam Pizzigati, Inequality.org, 2/22/2019)
Así afecta el entorno económico a la crianza de los hijose (Florencia Lopez-Boo, El País, 2/22/2019)
Why helicopter parenting might not be so bad and why not to move to Sweden (Tracy Weiner and Anne Johnsos, WGN Radio, 2/21/2019)
The parenting problem — what value do we place on caring? (Emma Jacobs, Financial Times, 2/20/2019)
Helicopter parenting: Does it work? And at what cost? (Amy Bell, CBC News, 2/19/2019)
Parents hélicoptères : comment l’angoisse des inégalités pousse les parents à surinvestir l’éducation de leurs enfants… tout en renforçant le mal contre lequel ils luttent (Pierre Duriot, Atlantico, 2/17/2019)
Helikoptereltern – alle lästern, aber das Konzept funktioniert (Gernot Kramper, Stern, 2/15/2019)
Does helicopter parenting give kids smoother ride to success? (Maureen Downey, AJC, 2/15/2019)
A year after the Parkland massacre, we still aren’t protecting our children (Helaine Olen, Washington Post, 2/14/2019)
Cosa vuol dire essere genitori elicottero con figli iper protetti (ma di successo?) (Francesca Zottola, Elle, 2/14/2019)
Economics professor finds helicopter parenting linked to countries with high economic inequality (Josiah Bonifant, Daily Northwestern, 2/14/2019)
Helicopter parenting might not be so bad after all (Kyla Cathey, earth.com, 2/10/2019)
Research Proves Helicopter Parenting Leads to Successful Kids (Audrey Goodson Kingo and Joseph Barberio, Working Mother, 2/8/2019)
Northwestern author examines how economics influences parenting styles (Hilary Hurd Anyaso, Northwestern News, 2/5/2019)
Economist Fabrizio Zilibotti on how economics shapes parenting (Mike Cummings, Yale News, 2/5/2019)
Ökonomen erklären, was Liebe, Geld und Kindererziehung miteinander zu tun haben (Thomas Jahn, Handelsblatt, 1/24/2019)
Wednesday, January 9, 2019: Seminary Coop Bookstore, 6 pm (5751 S Woodlawn Ave, Chicago, IL 60637).
Friday, February 22, 2019: Stati Generali Brains Day.
Tuesday, March 12, 2019: University of Oslo Library, 2 pm.
Wednesday, March 27, 2019: Sterling Library at Yale University.
Tuesday, April 30, 2019: Woodward Lecture, University of British Columbia (Woodward 5, 2194 Health Sciences Mall).
Thursday, May 30, 2019: Pi Capital.
Thursday, May 30, 2019: RSA (Royal Society for the encouragement of Arts, Manufactures and Commerce).
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